You’ve met many girls in your life. They looked differently and behaved differently. And they were all beautiful and smart girls. Some of them were right and some of them were wrong. When you look at things from this perspective, they didn’t have much in common except that they crossed paths with you. The only thing they all share is the fact that, sadly, none of them will matter in the future.
But there is this girl who stands out from all the others. And this is the only girl who will leave a mark on your life, the only girl who will always be important to you, even if you two don’t end up together and even if you are not aware of this fact right now.
When you look at her, there is nothing remotely special about her. Yes, she is beautiful but so are the others. She is intelligent but the other girls you met were smart as well. And even you don’t know that this girl is so special and unique. Even you don’t know what makes her one of a kind.
Let me tell you that this girl is far from perfect. And she might not be special. But she is special to you, even though you may not know it. It’s not her looks or her brains that make her special. It’s her love for you that makes her stand out from all the other girls in your life. It’s the way she looks at you and the way she talks about you. It’s the way she smiles when you enter a room and the way her eyes fill with tears every time you turn your back on her.
And most importantly, it’s the fact that this girl is the only person in the world who saw you at your worst but still thought you were the best, which makes her special.
It’s the fact that she is the only person in the world who knows all about you. She knows all your flaws, imperfections and all of your darkest secrets. And she is very much aware of the man you are. But she loves your flaws. And she doesn’t love you despite your flaws but because of them.
It’s the fact that she is the only person who stands by you, no matter what. The only woman who believes in you even when you stop believing in yourself. She is the only person in the world who never thought of leaving your side and who never thought of turning her back on you. When everyone else abandons you, she is the person you run to, isn’t she? She is your home, your sanctuary and your haven. She is the one who understands you and who knows you better than you know yourself. This woman is the wind beneath your wings, your shoulder to cry on and the only person who holds your hand through all of life’s difficulties. She is the only person who would move mountains for your sake and who always puts your needs in front of her own.
And you know all of this very well. So it’s time to ask yourself if you are matching her efforts. Do you appreciate this girl enough? Do you know how precious she is? Do you know what you have by your side or will you only become fully aware of it once you lose her? Because that it is when it will be too late for you to understand some things.
Are you doing everything in your power to keep this girl around you? Or are you taking her for granted while you spend your days with all these other girls who will leave your side the moment you need their help? Because if you do, you are making the biggest mistake of your life.
Because all of these other girls don’t know the real you. They know the smiling, caring man you were in the beginning. They know this interesting and happy guy who always gives them attention and who always has time for them. They only saw you at your best because you tried really hard to impress them.
But she is different. She was the only one who fought all of your battles.This girl is the only one who’s been doing her best to heal you and to save you, even when you don’t want to be saved or healed. The only one who’s been trying so hard to chase all of your demons for all this time. The only one you showed your true colors to.
But she didn’t run away from you, did she?
Instead, she still sticks to you through thick and thin and has done for all these years.
So be the smart guy and stick to her as well.
Because, trust me, if you don’t, you’ll regret it for the rest of your life. Hurting her will haunt you for as long as you breathe and you’ll spend the rest of your life searching for her in every woman you encounter. But you won’t find her because she really is one of a kind.