We all know that loyalty is important, and quite possibly the most important quality in a relationship. But not everyone remains loyal and not everyone knows what it means to be loyal. There are many relationships where a partner never technically cheated but he still made her feel worthless and not good enough.
That is why loving a loyal girl will be the decision of your life, because she knows that being loyal means so much more than just being faithful.
1. She will always have your back
The thing with loyal girls is that they know loyalty means more than not just sleeping around. They know how it hurts to be second choice, how it hurts to be in love with someone who only cares about themself. And she will never let you go through the same thing.
Whenever someone bad-mouths you, she will be there to put them back in their place. She will always have your back, no matter what happens. And having someone you know will protect both you and your name just because they love you and not because they need something from you is the greatest gift love can give you!
2. She will never make you her ‘almost’
Today, when every other relationship ends up being unlabeled or even labeled as ‘almost’, knowing that something like that cannot happen to you is a huge relief. She will never give you anything half-a**ed, because that’s just not who she is.
When she loves, she loves wholeheartedly, and when she gives her trust to someone, she gives it all the way. When she lets someone in, she makes sure that they are safe and sound. She makes sure that there is a smile on their face and peace on their mind. And she will do the same for you.
3. She will keep your secrets
Even when people love us and swear their love to us, it’s hard to have trust in them. They can easily reveal our secrets just to make jokes or to keep the laughter going in the group. But you don’t ever have to worry about it with her.
She will keep them safe like they are her own and no matter how much of a rough patch you hit, she won’t bad-mouth you to her friends. You see, she knows why loyalty is important and to her it means keeping your relationship safe and healthy. It means that whatever s**t you’re going through, you are going through it together. Not you two and a bunch of her friends.
4. She will never make you wonder about her feelings or commitment
Loyal people have real relationships and deeper communication with their friends and partners. And the science behind it is pretty simple—because of their loyalty and commitment, they hold nothing back. Even if the truth hurts, they will still share it with you, because that’s the right thing to do and that’s what the people they love deserve.
She will never let you go to bed wondering if you did something wrong or if she no longer loves you. She will never play games with you, because she knows that emotions are not there to be played with. She knows they are there to be cherished, taken care of and protected. And that’s exactly what she will do for you and with you. She will take the love you two have and guard it with her own life. Even if it means losing you to keep you safe, she will do it.
5. She will always be there for you
Being loyal is so much more than just not going around f**king other people. Being loyal is much more than having eyes for just one person. It’s about being there for that person, it’s about knowing when to put your life on hold to help them with theirs. And it’s also about knowing when it’s time to let go.
Going out of her way to help you with something, giving up on her dreams to make yours happen, those are the things she will always do for you, without you asking her. Without you telling her that you need it. But make no mistake, she will dump your a** the moment you play with her trust. She will kick you out of her life the moment you no longer deserve to be in it.
6. She will motivate you to be your best and pick you up at your worst
Being the best version of yourself seems so easy with her. It almost comes as easy as breathing, and that’s the best part about her. She knows how important your career and dreams are and she will never make you choose between them and her. Instead, she will be there to push you forward.
But even when you don’t succeed, she will still be there to pick you up and dust you off. She will be there to share the silence with you and listen to you when you are ready to talk about it. She will be there to share her strength and courage with you, the same as she shares her fears and weaknesses.
7. You will never have to wonder about her being loyal to you
To her, cheating is not an option. It never was and it never will be. She knows too well the pain of being disappointed, the pain of being broken and cheated on. She knows that’s a hell on it own and she will never put you through it.
When she decides to love someone, there is no one else for her. When she chooses you, that will be the choice she will happily make every single day, as long as you are worthy of her making it. And even when you no longer are, she will still do it, because that’s loyalty to her. Being there for you when you need her the most, even if you don’t deserve it.